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How divorced parents can help their kids get back to school: Part II

In our last post, we began a discussion about helping your kids transition into a new school year. This is help that all kids need at one time or another. But if you have recently finalized a divorce and child custody agreement, the transition into a new school year can be especially rocky. Thankfully, however, it doesn’t have to be.

We have already discussed the need to stick to a consistent custody schedule and the benefits of keeping consistent rules and bedtimes between households. Today we’ll talk about one of the most important factors in any parenting or co-parenting relationship: communication.

How divorced parents can help their kids get back to school: Part I

Labor Day weekend is coming up in just a few days, which means that students across North Carolina will soon be starting a new school year (if they haven’t already). There are many challenges kids face with the start of a new year. Some will be transitioning to a new school, and others will be starting school for the first time. Still others will be starting the school year with divorced parents.

If you and your ex-spouse have recently finalized a divorce and child custody agreement, the new school year is likely to be stressful for the whole family. This week, we’ll discuss some strategies for helping your kids as they navigate your divorce, two households and a new school year.

Getting a divorce? Who will get custody of the family dog or cat?

If you’re like most American pet owners, your dog or cat is considered a part of the family. In some cases, pets are loved as much as children. For couples without kids, pets can be surrogate children.

In light of the important relationship that pet owners have with their beloved companion animals, it should come as no surprise that pet custody can be a contentious issue in divorce. Unfortunately, this issue can be particularly tricky depending on where you get divorced, as laws governing pet custody are lacking in many states.

Destroying the parent-child relationship: Parental Alienation Syndrome

Earlier this week, we began a discussion about the problems of “parental gatekeeping” and “Parental Alienation Syndrome.” Both involve attempts by one parent to restrict the other parent’s access to the children, as well as attempts to damage or destroy said relationships. PAS is considered a more extreme form of parental gatekeeping.

Although PAS is still somewhat controversial as an official diagnosis, the behaviors it describes are commonly seen by family law attorneys and judges. It may begin before during, or after divorce.

Destroying the parent-child relationship: Parental gatekeeping

Child custody disputes can continue long after a court ruling has been made. Sadly, one parent in the dispute is generally the “winner” while the other parent suffers the consequences associated with losing. And when these disputes occur, children never win.

In this week’s posts, we talk about two terms that are becoming more common in family law. The first is “parental gatekeeping.” The second is “Parental Alienation Syndrome.” Both of these terms describe different degrees of the same phenomenon, and both can have a profoundly negative impact on kids.

Changing your name after divorce part II: Logistical considerations

In our last post, we began a discussion about the pros and cons of changing your name after getting divorced. This most often applies to women, but some couples do choose to combine and hyphenate their last names.

If you are a woman who is getting divorced and considering a name change, you may be worried about the logistics of that decision. Today, we'll talk about how to smooth the transition and minimize problems that could come with a name change.

Changing your name after divorce part I: The pros and cons

For a number of reasons, the convention of changing one's surname upon getting married is less common than it once was. That being said, many women still choose to take their husband's last name when they get married, and some couples choose to combine and hyphenate.

If you are a woman who took her husband's name in marriage but is now getting divorced, you may be stuck on what to do now. Do you keep your married name? Do you go back to your "maiden name?" Do you pick an entirely new last name? The choice is yours, and there are pros and cons with any decision.

A restrictive prenuptial agreement does not hinder estate plans

One of the things about family law that many people in Raleigh may have noticed is that it overlaps with a considerable number of other areas of law. A divorce could affect a business if it is run by a married couple. Similarly a prenuptial agreement could affect an estate plan. While it may not be intuitive, just because someone has a somewhat restrictive prenuptial agreement in place doesn't mean that he or she can't leave a considerable amount of money or property to his or her spouse.

Prenuptial agreements may still have the stigma of being for the rich only, but that is far from the truth. There are a number of business owners who use prenups to protect their businesses and business interests from being divided in the case of a divorce. Since income and interests that grow during a marriage are typically fair game in a divorce, a prenuptial agreement is a good tool to make sure that only the original business owner will get those funds if he or she ends up divorced.

Be careful with what you get in property division

North Carolina has a great law in which divorcing couples can divide their property: equitable distribution. What this mean, in essence is that each spouse should receive his or her fair share of the marital property. This doesn't mean that each spouse will get exactly half of all the assets and all the debts accrued during the marriage, but it does mean that the spouses will walk away from the marriage with relatively fair portions of the property. Sounds good, right?

For the post part, it is. A husband may get the house while the wife gets a greater portion of the savings account and a rental property, for example. Though family law attorneys and family courts do a good job of trying to get an equitable distribution, sometimes what a spouse chooses to go after may actually cause more financial strain than was initially expected.

Alimony reforms limit permanent spousal support

Another East Coast state has joined the alimony reform trend that has been sweeping the nation. Although North Carolina has not been in the news for improvements or changes to alimony law, its East Coast companion of New Jersey is being heralded for the passing of several new measures related to spousal support payment. The state Assembly voted almost unanimously to approve a bill that would entirely eliminate permanent alimony from the legal system, among other significant changes.

The bill is designed to prevent the use of permanent alimony, which is a perpetual type of spousal maintenance that continues indefinitely. Provisions in the bill would allow payments to end once the payer reaches retirement age: 67 years old according to the federal government. Accommodations would be made for those who are continuing to work into retirement.

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